MENtality With Ebuka: A Deep Dive into Modern Masculinity

Over the last six weeks, the MENtality With Ebuka podcast has been a compelling platform exploring the multifaceted experiences of men today. Covering a broad spectrum of themes-from the challenges of fatherhood and financial responsibility to the complexities of romantic relationships and male friendships-the show offers insightful conversations that peel back the layers of male identity.

Hosts and Their Mission

Guided by the dynamic duo of Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and Banky W, the podcast invites a diverse range of guests who bravely tackle subjects that men often hesitate to address openly. Their candid discussions aim to break down stigmas and foster a more transparent dialogue about masculinity in contemporary society.

Spotlight on Young Boys: Understanding Their Silent Struggles

This week’s episode features insightful contributions from IK Osakioduwa, Sonariwo OnDeck, and Murewa, who focus on the often-overlooked challenges faced by young boys. They explore pressing questions such as: Why do many boys endure their difficulties in silence? What influences shape their thoughts and behaviors? And crucially, what support do they require from the men and families in their lives to thrive?

Why This Conversation Matters

Recent studies reveal that nearly 1 in 5 boys experience mental health issues but are less likely to seek help compared to girls, highlighting the urgency of these discussions. By addressing these topics, the episode aims to empower families and communities to better understand and support the emotional well-being of boys, fostering healthier development and stronger future men.

Join the Conversation

This episode promises to be both thought-provoking and uplifting, offering valuable perspectives that encourage empathy and action. Don’t miss out on this important dialogue.

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Uniting Against Gender-Based Violence: A Call for Change in Nigeria and Beyond

Gender-based violence (GBV) remains a pervasive issue affecting countless women and girls across Nigeria, perpetuating cycles of fear, exclusion, and injustice. However, the annual 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence offers a powerful platform for communities to rally together, demanding a future where safety, respect, and equality prevail for all women and girls.

Global Solidarity from November 25 to December 10

Each year, from November 25th-the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women-to December 10th, recognized as Human Rights Day, millions worldwide join forces to highlight the urgent need to eradicate GBV. This period serves as a critical moment to raise awareness, foster dialogue, and mobilize action against violence rooted in gender discrimination.

WARIF’s Leadership in Nigeria’s Fight Against GBV

For over seven years, the Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF) has spearheaded this movement within Nigeria through its impactful WARIF No Tolerance March (NTM). This annual event has grown into a symbol of resilience and hope, bringing together individuals, organizations, and communities under the unyielding message: zero tolerance for gender-based violence.

Expanding Reach: The 2024 No Tolerance March and Beyond

The 2024 edition of the No Tolerance March marked a significant expansion, with vibrant demonstrations held not only in Nigerian cities like Lagos, Abuja, and Ibadan but also internationally in cities including London, Manchester, New York, Houston, Washington D.C., Minnesota, and Frankfurt. Over 3,500 marchers took to the streets in Lagos alone, while digital platforms connected more than 18 million people globally, amplifying the call for justice.

Building on this momentum, the 2025 WARIF No Tolerance March is set to take place across 18 cities worldwide, encompassing locations such as Sokoto, Maiduguri, Zamfara, Accra, Nairobi, Northwest UK, Atlanta, Paris, Philadelphia, alongside the previously mentioned cities. This global expansion underscores the universal urgency of combating GBV.

Rooted in Local Realities, Driving Global Change

What distinguishes the No Tolerance March is its authentic connection to the everyday experiences of Nigerian women and girls. Amid entrenched cultural norms and systemic obstacles that sustain violence, WARIF’s campaign has evolved into a transformative movement focused on empowerment, accountability, and narrative change. It fosters open conversations, challenges harmful traditions, and encourages communities to take ownership of the fight against GBV.

Supported by a network of local and international collaborators, the march functions as both an educational forum and a powerful call to action. It emphasizes prevention strategies, the creation of safe environments, and the dismantling of institutional barriers that hinder the protection and advancement of women and girls.

Comprehensive Impact: WARIF’s Holistic Approach

Beyond the march itself, WARIF’s influence extends through its integrated approach combining prevention, intervention, and advocacy. Anchored by three core pillars-Health, Education, and Community Service-the organization delivers vital medical care and psychological support to survivors, while also conducting outreach and educational initiatives that empower communities to break cycles of violence.

Recent data from the Nigerian National Bureau of Statistics reveals that approximately 30% of women aged 15-49 have experienced some form of physical violence, underscoring the critical need for sustained efforts like WARIF’s. By addressing these challenges holistically, WARIF is not only transforming individual lives but also fostering safer, more resilient communities.

Join the Movement: Stand Against Gender-Based Violence

As the world commemorates the 16 Days of Activism, the WARIF No Tolerance March serves as a compelling testament to the power of collective action. Together, we can forge a future where every woman and girl enjoys dignity, security, and freedom from violence.

Event Details:
Date: Saturday, December 6, 2025
Locations: Lagos, Abuja, Ibadan, Sokoto, Maiduguri, Zamfara, Accra, Nairobi, London, Northwest UK, Atlanta, New York, Houston, Minnesota, Paris, Philadelphia, Washington D.C., and Frankfurt.

Connect and share your support using the hashtags: #WARIFNoTolerance2025 #WARIFNoToleranceMarch #16DaysOfActivism

Celebrating the Joyous Introduction Ceremony of Akin Faminu and Kiky Festus

We must kick off this celebration with an enthusiastic shout of excitement because the wedding festivities of Akin Faminu and Kiky Festus have officially commenced, marked by elegance, love, and vibrant energy.

Setting the Scene: A Fashion-Forward Celebration

True to their reputation as style icons, the couple arrived impeccably dressed, showcasing a stunning palette of blues that perfectly captured the spirit of their special day. Their sartorial choices not only reflected their personalities but also set a sophisticated tone for the entire event. As always, we have all the exquisite details to share with you.

Kiky’s Mesmerizing Ensemble

Kiky captivated everyone with her breathtaking outfit-a beaded corset top adorned with intricate patterns in shades of blue and teal that shimmered beautifully under the light. Her skirt was a masterpiece in itself, featuring a dramatic tiered peplum on one side that introduced a bold asymmetrical flair before flowing into a sleek mermaid silhouette. Complementing her attire was a blue damask gele, adding a traditional yet chic touch. She accessorized with understated silver jewelry, including a collar necklace, a metallic clutch, a collection of rings (highlighted by her engagement ring), and elegant silver heels.

Akin’s Distinguished Groom Look

Consistently stylish, Akin donned a striking blue agbada crafted from layered patchwork in various blue hues-royal, navy, electric, and light blue-arranged in geometric patterns such as stripes, checks, and abstract shapes. His ensemble was elevated by a custom-made fila cap, a gold-handled walking stick, aviator sunglasses, and black beaded necklaces, all of which exuded confidence and groomly sophistication.

The Significance of the Introduction Ceremony

Following their romantic engagement in Paris, Akin and Kiky have now embarked on the next chapter of their journey with their introduction ceremony. This event holds deep cultural importance as it marks the formal meeting of the couple’s immediate families.

In Nigerian tradition, particularly within the Igbo community to which Kiky belongs, this ceremony is known as Iku Aka. It serves as a foundational step in the wedding process, symbolizing unity and mutual respect between families.

Relive the Moments: Gallery from the Introduction

Immerse yourself in the joyous atmosphere of Akin and Kiky’s introduction ceremony through the curated collection of photos below, capturing the love, style, and cultural richness of this memorable occasion.

Celebrating Media Excellence in Gender Equity: Highlights from the 2025 ReportHer Awards in Lagos

On Friday in Lagos, the 2025 ReportHer Awards honored media organizations that have demonstrated outstanding dedication to advancing gender equality and amplifying women’s voices within journalism. Leading the accolades were Premium Times, BONews Service, News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), and the Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria (FRCN), each recognized for their unique contributions to fostering inclusivity and gender-sensitive reporting.

About the ReportHer Awards: A Collaborative Effort for Gender-Inclusive Media

Organized jointly by Women Radio 91.7FM and the Wole Soyinka Centre for Investigative Journalism (WSCIJ), the awards spotlighted excellence across four pivotal categories that address critical aspects of women’s representation in Nigerian media. This initiative underscores the growing importance of gender-responsive journalism in shaping public discourse and policy.

Premium Times: Leading the Charge in Gender-Based Violence Reporting

Premium Times earned the award for Excellence in GBV Reporting due to its rigorous investigative journalism focused on gender-based violence, reproductive rights, and gender policy. Their work was praised for its ethical approach, accuracy, and solution-oriented narratives that delve into the socio-cultural, legal, and political factors influencing gender disparities. This aligns with global trends where investigative journalism plays a crucial role in holding systems accountable and driving social change.

BONews Service: Championing Inclusive Advocacy and Balanced Coverage

Recognized for Excellence in Inclusive Advocacy and Reportage, BONews Service stood out for its equitable and nuanced storytelling that promotes gender equality, disability rights, and broader social justice issues. Their commitment reflects a growing media trend towards intersectional coverage that addresses multiple dimensions of inclusion.

News Agency of Nigeria (NAN): Setting the Standard for Pro-Women Workplace Policies

NAN was honored for Excellence in Pro-Women Workplace Policy, implementing progressive measures such as a six-month maternity leave, a two-hour daily work reduction for six months post-maternity, 14 days of paternity leave, and on-site creche facilities at their Abuja and Lagos offices. Additionally, they offer light-duty assignments for nursing employees, setting a benchmark for family-friendly workplace environments in Nigeria’s media sector.

Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria (FRCN): Exemplifying Female Leadership in Media Management

FRCN received the award for Excellence in Female Leadership Representation, boasting that women occupy 70% of its management leadership roles. This includes 11 female heads of departments within the committee of management and six women serving as deputy directors across regional offices. Their leadership model highlights the critical role of women in shaping media narratives and organizational culture.

Recognizing Collective Efforts and Media Professionals

While each category had a single winner, the organizers emphasized appreciation for all media outlets committed to equitable and balanced reporting. They extended gratitude to editors, journalists, producers, digital content creators, and cartoonists whose persistent efforts ensure that women’s perspectives are authentically represented and respected in the media landscape.

Insights from Key Leaders Driving Gender-Inclusive Journalism

Motunrayo Alaka, CEO of the Wole Soyinka Centre for Investigative Journalism, reflected on the organization’s two-decade legacy of fostering courageous and inclusive journalism. WSCIJ’s initiatives, including collaborations, training programs, fellowships, mentorship, the Report Women program, and the prestigious Wole Soyinka Award for Investigative Reporting, have been instrumental in empowering journalists and promoting gender and social equity.

Toun Okewale Sonaiya, CEO of Women Radio 91.7FM, highlighted the station’s unique role since 2015 as Nigeria’s only female-focused radio platform. Women Radio has been pivotal in advancing women’s rights and inclusive governance through innovative projects such as NimiAI, Nigeria’s first AI-powered radio host providing personalized support to women in real time. The station also conducts ReportHer trainings to equip female journalists with investigative skills, hosts media dialogues to amplify women’s narratives, and organizes the annual Voice of Women Conference and Awards, the country’s largest forum promoting women’s leadership and grassroots empowerment.

Support and Vision for Gender-Responsive Media

The 2025 ReportHer Awards received backing from the Ford Foundation West Africa, reinforcing the initiative’s mission to enhance media accountability and nurture a sustainable culture of gender-inclusive journalism throughout Nigeria. This aligns with global efforts to ensure media platforms serve as catalysts for social equity and gender justice.