Popularly Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Shafau known by many as Kaffy has shared her own opinion on submission in marriage which has been a popular topic among many recently, Oyogist.com reports.
Following recent happenings which has have some Nigerians defining what they think submission should be; that married women have to submit to their husbands whether they like it or not.
Kaffy via a post shared on her Instagram page, stated that in her own point of view, that submission doesn’t mean a woman has to slave herself or has to lower her voice, essence, or purpose just because she is in the presence of her man.
Kaffy speaking further said submission should be more of an agreement between a man and a woman.
She further advised that a man and woman first should find clarity before seeking for a partner.
Here is what she wrote;
”The word “Submission” if it were a human being would have committed suicide because of the falsehood attached to how it’s name has been used .
First of all the word does not mean one is a slave to another nor does it mean a woman must lower her voice , essence and purpose just because she is in the presence of a man.
Submission here to me (my point of view) is more of being in agreement with the thought, purpose, assignment and essence a man carries as this would gravely affect the amount of selfless , sacrifice and trust a woman needs to have to become the Favour God has ordained her to be to the man.
And don’t forget every woman carrying Favour is a woman with a dream and essence amd assignment too. She MUST only submit to one who would obtain what she carries in her that God wants to manifest into the world .
Man being a Lord , Custodian or asked to LOVE his wife also comes from a place of nurturing , developing , enduring ,learning , and so many more Christ – like qualities . And not just emotional and financial provision .
The world needs to be a better place and it takes people who understands their assignment and purpose on earth .
A lot of our men don’t even have clarity of self , too much pressure ,distractions and expectations created by culture , society in fact safe to say expectations of the FLESH over that of the kingdom has led to a lot of straying of souls .
Both men and women need a break to gain clarity , to find themselves before seeking a partner .
God help us all”
